Hi Parents ,
When you find out the news that your Wife /Partner is expecting the news is sometimes "Joy or Shock"
whatever the case is there is also after the news .....hidden fear that "what if i am not able to look after
the Child as best as i can. Body Image !!!! We all change from having a Baby ,whoever you disagree or agree
on the Topic. Having a baby is not a fashion parade , but more deeper than that. Body changes also have
"Mental changes " how we see ourselves ,how we eat and so on. It is very important for husbands / same couples
to .....support their other half, to love and give verbal support to the growing belly image and not "OHHHH you have lost the SEXY LOOK"
OOOHHHH you are so Large and big . OF course the body changes to cater for the growing baby . You don't stay a size 8 0r 10 for long
its how you go about accepting the changes .... Positive thinking....after baby is born things tend to fall back into place....
Diet and heathly eating plays a big part in ti and also not over eating for 2 so to speak.
Try not to over eat just because other 's have said you should . Good healthy ,eating if you are not ware of that
do some research on line for when you are expecting , what to work towards (how much each day).
Fashion Clothes are ok for some but check out example....how tight the pants are around the belly ....
special bra's needed. a bit loose clothes makes it easy to move around. No tight items to cut into you
not good for baby and for you !!! Fashion is not on the gender when it comes to comfort !!.Tight pants can
make you dizzy and can result into passing out in the street.
Body image is different for each mother to be ....embrace the beautiful change , What Mother Nature Gave us !!
to expand when needed to get the job done.!! yes you might feel strange, huge , over weight (in your mind) but
you are growing a little person inside of you that needs your love ,support ,caring thoughts .....
Giving Birth is a beautiful experience ,no matter how hard it seems ...worth it all in the end!
A beautiful Child who one day say to you "Happy Mothers Day Mum with huge hugs "
The first time will leave tears of joy in your eyes to hear those sweet words "MUMMY"
Yes we are !!!! We bought you into this world , many more joys to come.
Embrace the experience of being pregnant , LOVE ONES SELF AND THE BELLY NO MATTER HOW BIG IT IS !!!!
All the best for you all
Kind Regards Skatergirl08
MOTHERS VOICES ARE THE BEST TOOLS
TOWARDS CHANGE FOR THE BETTER ,
HAPPY AUTISTIC CHILDREN GROWN INTO CONFIDENT ADULTS