Have you thought about Family Counselling Therapy session'would be the best step to take.
They can guide you in the right direction help you to come to term with the separation
with your daughter.Your daughter is young now but as she grows older she need to understand what has happened .
Its sad to hear that the Child will have to deal with the fact she has two family's ,but if you want to stay in touch
growing up ,you really need help seek that help. Since you have other child on the way ,the sessions
will give you the tools to be there for both of them ,for their education ,support and most of all love!
Since your daughter is 4.5 years old she needs to talk about her feeling , how she coping with dealing with them.
Teenage years she might just want some really difficult questions ,if you cannot answer them
can put a strain on all concern.
I am sure they have Counselling Therapy Services in Italy ,so if you are leaving very soon you can
follow that up when you get there. Nothing wrong with asking for help "how to talk to the Child"
certain topics are not discussed till she gets older. Don't forget she might be aware of the other
Child your Girlfriend is having and you as a father will be in that Child's life more.
Make a better difference as they are growing up , be there for both Children ,Support them $$$$
in their education take responsibility toward the better!
Good luck and take care.
Kind Regards Skatergirl08
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